Caregiver Visit Checklist
Visiting your aging parents? Use this 20-item checklist to assess their health, home safety, and daily wellbeing during every visit.
Physical Health
Home Safety
Mental/Emotional
Daily Living
Financial/Legal
Technology
Frequently Asked Questions
How often should I visit my aging parents?
If possible, visit at least once a month for an in-person assessment. Between visits, daily phone calls or the ImAlive check-in app help you stay informed about their wellbeing.
What are the biggest red flags to watch for?
Unexplained bruises (unreported falls), expired food in the fridge, unpaid bills, and significant mood or cognitive changes. These often signal a need for increased support.
My parents live far away. How can I check on them?
Use the ImAlive app for daily automated check-ins. If they miss a check-in, you are alerted immediately. Combine this with regular video calls and periodic in-person visits.
How do I bring up concerns I notice during a visit without offending my parents?
Lead with empathy, not criticism. Instead of saying 'Your house is a mess,' try 'I noticed some things I would love to help with while I am here.' Frame your observations as opportunities to help rather than judgments about their abilities.
What should I do if I notice a significant decline between visits?
Document your observations and discuss them with your parent's doctor. Sudden changes in cleanliness, weight, mood, or cognitive function may indicate a new health issue. If the decline is rapid, schedule a medical appointment as soon as possible rather than waiting for the next regular checkup.
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